In A Relationship

In relation, we must try to understand his/her thinking. If not, it will be so hard to compare some arguments. I feel so anger when I meet someone who cannot "think". It means that he/she live commonly and he/she is not thinking what he/she has done or will do.

Although, must we know that there is no perfect body in our world. So, I am studying to know the others. I will more appraise with the others too. Sometimes mood and feeling influence our emotion and thinking. Our emotion can be unstable and make other people disturbed by our doing.

I like study the others' feeling and method of their thinking. So, I will know everybody and not hurt their feeling. I hope everybody who read this article can follow me to learn how the ohters' thinking. Thus becoming so harmonious life.

The Four Temperaments Types

What are you? Have you known?

There are four temperaments that people have. This is the four temperaments types and their description. Hope this article can help you to find out your potency in yourself. God bless you.



Sanguine - Speaker, Extrovert and Optimistic

Sanguine is generally light- hearted, spontaneous, leader abilities, and confident. However, they can be arrogant and cocky. The humour of sanguine was one commonly treated with leeches is based on the process of the blood being sucked out nad being able to understand the effect of the process.



Melancholic - Thinker, Introvert and Pessimistic

Melancholic is the opposite of Sanguine. A person who is a thoughtful poderer has a melancholic diposition. Often very kind and considerate, melancholics can be highly creative - as in poetry or art - but also become overly preoccupied with tragedy in the world, thu becoming depressed. A melancholic is also perfectionist, being very pasrticular about what they want and how they want it in some cases. This often results in being dissatisfied with one's own artistic or creative works and always pointing out to themselves what could and should be improved. They are often loners and like choose to stay alone.



Choleric - Doer, Extrovert and Optimistic

Choleric is a strong personality. They have a lot of passion and ambition. They can dominate people of other temperaments, especially phlegmatic types. On the negative side, they are easily angered and bad-tempered.



Phlegmatic - Observer, Introvert and Pessimistic

Phlegmatic is well-known with their loving peace. They are generally self-content and kind, very consistent, relaxed, and observant. Like the sanguine, the phlegmatic has many friends. On the other side, their shy personality can often inhibit enthusiasm in others and make themselves lazy and resistant to change.

Knowing Your Self

All of the personality theories discussed in this text have one thing in common. They are all designed to expalin who we are in man's quest for improved self-understanding. Many focus on the why of personality. Others focus more on the what, looking only at our present. Still others are more concerned about the who, or the internal state of who we can become.

In many ways, the individual theories have begun to merge together, however, and while each still holds a basic belief about personlity, the specifics of each theory have alternative explanations. Cognitivists argue that the conscious is the most important, but don't discount completely the idea of an unconscious awareness. And Humanists, while they don't address the unconscious directly, do believe that we are sometimes driven by forces that are not accurate in the real world.

So, what does all of this mean? It means that eventhough theorist's original ideas may be set in stone, interpretation, alteration, and manipulation of these theories will continue for a long time. As students, we can read the specific explanations of personality, but it's up to each of us individually to interpret these ideas, throw out what doesn't make sense, and hold on to the parts that seem to fit. In that sense, each of us may have a slightly different view of how personality develops, how it should be assessed, and how we can use our beliefs to change the personality.

Who are you? What do you stand for? What do you believe in? What engages your passion? Do you know?

Here are some steps you can take to get reacquainted with yourself.

Write

The process of writing can support you in learning about what you are afraid of, what you're passionate about, and what you aspire to.

Find 15 quiet minutes in your day, and steal aay to a comfortable place in your home. Begin your writing. Writ about how you are feeling, what is bothering or exciting you.

Meditate

It's about observing yourself in the present moment. Find 10 quiet moments in your day, and relax your body. Focus on your breath, and allow the thoughts that enter your mind to be there. Acknowledge them, but don't focus on understanding what they mean, or solving any problems. Just allow yourself to be still.

Move

There are emotional benefits of moving your body. If you are the type of person who has a really hard time slowing down, this may be a great way for you to begin committing to time to be with yourself.

Walk

Walking is a moving mediation. It allows you to slow down, and notice what's going on around you. If you usually move a million miles per hour, walking can allow you to focus on being fully present.

Old Hobbies

What did you love to do when you were a child? Remember and think it because the authenticity of childhood interests cannot be denied. Revisit the thing you used to love to do as a kid.

New Interests

In vestigate and research things you find intriguing. Do you have a friend who spends her time in ways that you admire? Did you used to dream about being great at something? Did you used to wish for your family to support you in the pursuit of a special talent? Give yourself the permission and the support to explore it now.

The approach you take is not important. The fact that you make the time to reconnect with yourself. Have fun with yourself and explore it continually!

INTRODUCE MY SELF

Before this, I have ever tried to create a blog and apply it to Google AdSense, but my blog is rejected. However, I will not give up. I will try it again and again, and now I have an assignment from my lecturer about having blog. So, I make a new blog that contents about my life and I'll apply to Google AdSense again. It's my dream. I have looked for some information about how to accepted by Google AdSense. I have known it and I will try it now!

My name is Yosef Ganisaputra. I'm 18 years old. I'm from Semarang, bu now I live in Bandung, Indonesia. My university is in here, Maranatha. Do you know it? I prefer this university because of it's religion. It's a Christian university. Of course, I am a Christian too. I always go to church every Sunday with my family.I love my family so much. I feel so happy with them. I think my family is harmonious enough.

My life began from I was still a baby. When I was child, I often got some diseases. My parents very afraid about me and my intelligence. They afraid that I would be an idiot. It was sound very hyperbole, that's true! In fact, I grew up with very very normal until now and forever, I hope.

I am a melancholic. Do you know melancholic? Yes, it's a someone's personality that don't like say anything but like think it seriously. I like thinking. I also like sharing with the others. So, if you have some problem, talk to me and I'll try to think and give you solution of your problems. Because of my personality, I'm very introvert, but I'm humble and wise. What a nice person!

One day, I think that I have no potency. My life is boring and I don't know the purpose of my life. Although, I keep in looking for my potency and finally, I find some in myself. Like, I love music and I can play guitar. I think it's one of my potency that I've found. Moreover, I also like photo editing. So, I think those are my potencies that God has given for me. Thanks God.